I was asked by a friend on a sunny July afternoon if someday I decided to marry.. would I marry a female who lost her virginity due to rape, some accident or consensual sex. I said yes, but it would be nice if that person was honest with me from the beginning and told me what happened to her.
This view is definitely shared among the male specimen of this species, some guys would never get serious as in thinking of engagement or marriage with a girl who lost her virginity for one reason or another. He may end up marrying in some traditional way, a girl he barely knows, yet at the same time he would have had some sexual experiences with some girls who he felt they were for fun.. just girlfriends nothing serious, get her drunk, or invite her over for a movie and that movie will be memorable.
Usually when guys take liberties with any female its the female’s fault.. she was dressed seductively, or she wanted it, or asked for it.. etc etc then when the girl is raped its her fault not the guy. Bloody mentality would castrating those guys do a difference or some mental lobotomy would help them adjuct to the reality of the world and for them to realise what they are doing.
Is the ‘Non-Virgin” question harder than the Jewish Question from the late 19th century??
Would you marry or get into a serious relationship with a “non-virgin” ?